Small Acts Can Sometimes Be Great Deeds
Some times we fail to do a kind deed, because we think it needs to be something big to be considered a kindness. We think we need enormous amounts of time or money to be kind. I have often been at the mercy of kind strangers and I learn how to be kind from them. I was once at a grocery store and a lady offered to take my cart back to the store, saying she was going that way anyway. Something so simple, and yet so kind. Another time, I was at a meeting once were we were asked to stand and put on a robe. I was having trouble tying my robe and it was taking me longer than the others in the meeting. There was a lady behind me, that I noticed had finished with her robe, but she didn't sit down as all the other had done. It ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by writingmomma
- Apr 19, 2007
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Simple Kindness To a Stranger
Several years ago I started work at a new company. It was close to the Holiday Season and the office drew names for "Secret Santa". Since I was new, I didn't really know anyone there I had no idea what I was going to get or do for my person. However, before I really had a chance to think much about it she became very ill and had to take a leave of absence. I decided to send her a couple of cards and wrote a positive affirmation in each one. The weeks went on and she was still quite ill; Christmas came and went and she still had not recovered. I continued to send cards to her home and to the hospital and always included a positive message. Easter came and she was finally home so I arranged for a few of her "old friends" (they had worked with her for ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by MsJava
- Apr 18, 2007
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An Old Mendicant's Treats
An old mendicant came to my road,singing some prayer songs and asking for food.
I was just heading home, and my key got stuck and I couldn't open my door. So when I headed back to the where the old man was sitting on the roadside, with a home cooked meal, fruits and bread, I couldn't find him there.
I walked down the road, thinking that maybe I could find someone else who could use what I had prepared.
On the main road, I stumbled on two little children. They were evidently ragpickers, and they had dropped their bags of trash, peering into an Italian restaurant where several wealthy people were having lunch.
It was such a magical moment, me going there and handing them this package. I can never forget the joy on the little children's faces on seeing the warm food.
- Posted by guin
- Apr 18, 2007
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Bad Exam Leads To Random Tagging!
I had just finished writing a test and was not feeling so great about it so I decided that I was going to "tag" people to make myself feel better.
I bought a bag of chocolates and walked around the library asking people if they would like some chocolate. Some people said no because they gave up chocolate for lent, but others definitely loved it!
I was definitely in a better mood after the hour of tagging people with chocolates. The smiles that I received back definitely made me feel better about my test.
Any ideas of other things that could be passed out instead of chocolate?
- Posted by SmileMU
- Apr 17, 2007
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5 Things to do with Spare Change
Change is heavy, jingly, and annoying, so why keep it around in your wallet?
Here is a list of my top 5 kind things to do with pocket change:
- Cover someone's expired parking meter. It only cost you a few quarters, but it might save someone a $40 parking ticket.
- Put it in a vending machine, pay phone, laundromat, or any other service machine requiring change for the next person who comes along. Make sure you leave a note and a smile card so the person knows what you did.
- Just Drop It! Someone in need of a lucky penny will come along and pick it up!
- Throw it into a public fountain. The change from those usually go to a charity anyways. Plus, you get to make a wish!
- The next time go get an ice cream or a cup of coffee, leave your extra change behind with the clerk and tell them to use it towards the next customer's purchase. Trust me, it'll make their day!
- Posted by papaya
- Apr 17, 2007
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Lady on the Pavement
I was standing near a store window, waiting for my friend with whom I was supposed to find materials for our college assignment.
I was waiting for quite long, when I noticed an old woman sitting in front of me. She looked very weak and poor and was rummaging through garbage cans looking for food.
Since many people work as garbage collectors, I thought that maybe she was one such person and didn't want to degrade her self esteem by asking if she wanted any food.
Our eyes met and I smiled at her. I don't know why, but she suddenly came to me and said that she was feeling very hungry and didn't have any money. It was evident that she wasnt a beggar but just that her circumstances were tough.
I went to a store in the next street and bought her some food that she could eat immmediately, and a bunch of fruit that she could eat over the next few weeks.
She looked very pleased and blessed me, making *me* feel very happy for a long time.
- Posted by guin
- Apr 16, 2007
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The Pick-Me-Up BackPack
For the past month I have been down, which is not like me. I'm uncertain about my relationship, you know how that is.
Anyways, to try and get myself out of a funk, I decided to get a brand new back pack and fill it up with all sorts of neat things Pencils, note pads, t-shirts a purse and other stuff.. When I got done it was stuffed. I put a note that said free along with one of my smile cards. I took it downstairs and left it in the laundry room for somebody to take.
I don't know about the person receiving it but it sure put a smile on my face.
- Posted by bhappy
- Apr 16, 2007
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Befriending a Bully With Kindness
During the first week of of my second semester sophmore year, the first thing I happen to hear is that there's a new kid at school. From what was being spread around, this student was being portrayed as a big mean bully, someone that was expelled for getting in a fight at a school nearby. In my mind, though, I could only think how awful and how uncomfortable I would feel as a new student with a reputation already set out for me. So the next thing I did was I searched for the new student. I ran all over campus to find and locate him, until I found him, head sulked down and with a weary expression upon his face. Without hesitating, I approached him, introduced myself and asked him if he was new to the campus and if he needed any help getting around. With a relief, he ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by sparticus
- Apr 16, 2007
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Old Man on a Bicycle
Kindness acts are a great excuse to believe in ourselves and our world. Once I had been invited for the lunch at one of my relatives house. My aunty gave me the address and told me to come to her house for the my meal, until I got settled into the new city. In trying to get to her house, I gost lost and was despearately looking for help on the lonely roads for more than half an hour. In a bit, I saw a old man on bicycle. I didn't want to stop him but I had no choice so I asked him for the address; he explained the route but it just didn't sink in; I was so tired of hunting around for the place and at this point, I was super hungry and thirsty too. Well, that old man was a dear soul. Seeing the frustration and ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by Rashmi
- Apr 15, 2007
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Carrier Bag Angel
Last Saturday on a shopping trip I noticed a lady with four carrier bags come out of the store and walk to the bus stop. That particular bus goes my way so I thought I would ask her if she wanted a lift with it being a chilly day and the weekend service being a bit sparce.
She most gladly excepted. Chatting on the way, she revealed she was a cartaker for her sick husband and elderly mother. One of the highlights of her week is the flower arranging she does at church.
Despite the daily grind that this lady had to endure, she had such a positive and cheerful outlook in thinking of others to brighten up their lives with flowers. It made me think how we are surrounded by angels in the most unexpected forms. She was so thankful for my little help. I gave her a big hug and said she had made my day.
A big thanks to all caretakers out there.
- Posted by Afriendlysmile
- Apr 15, 2007
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We Got Tagged Ourselves!
My fiancé and I were having breakfast at a neighborhood diner Saturday morning. When were requested our check the waitress said that “our friends” paid for our breakfast. We asked who and she smiled and walked away. We looked around the restaurant to see if maybe someone was smiling at us but we didn’t catch anyone’s eye. So we assumed they wanted to be anonymous. My fiancé looked at me and said, “Wow those smile cards really work”. We both laughed and smiled at each other for awhile. We have really enjoyed dropping smile cards on unsuspecting folks. It has been fun and it has put a smile on our face more than once. It was an odd feeling to have someone do it to us. It was just a little strange to walk out of that restaurant looking around like, ok…who dunnit? :) What a beautiful world we live in. Thank ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by integrity
- Apr 15, 2007
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Smile Poems (and my First Smile Card)
I decided to make cards with smile poems in them, just blank greeting cards I found in the closet. After writing smile poems, I taped smile cards inside.
My friend and I were walking around town and decided to get coffee at one of those really tiny coffee shops they have randomly around town. The cashier/server was really sweet, like a genuine sweet, not a fake one. So after she gave us our coffee I took out a smile greeting card thing and gave it to her, and told her to read it.
She didn't read it until after she served another customer, giving us time to be far enough away not to see her reaction. More fun that way. :)
- Posted by Aiya
- Apr 14, 2007
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The Gift That Comes Around
During the holidays, our company gives it employees gift certificates to use in thier stores and for a few years now I've received these gift certificates from fellow employees because they know that I use them to help others. It's a great way to get your co-workers involved! Anyway, we always have a full store and people shop there to help others, and this day I got to help them help others. A young pastor and his wife were shopping and asked if we could somehow give him a deal because he was buying clothes for 10 people in his church and needed help himself, so I told him I would go and speak with my manager and see what we could do. Being that we work with donated goods, we were able to help him a little and then I remembered the gift certificates that I had in my purse and gave ... Read Full Story >>
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- Apr 14, 2007
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Casserole For My Friend
My girlfriend at work is going through a rough time. Both parents are sick and recently moved in with her. She has two teenage children that are involved in sports and music. So she is constantly running here and there and on demand.
I couldn't believe my ears when she told me that she had volunteered to teach Religious Ed classes in her home on Wednesday nights for the next 6 weeks ... which happened to be the next day. I was thinking about her on the way home that night and wondering if she was in her car on the way to some sport event or music lessons.
Then I thought that it would be nice if I made a quick dinner casserole for her family for the next night since she would be having the Religious Ed class in her home. I brought it to work in the morning and she was thrilled and thanked me many times for thinking of her and her family. They were getting a little tired of eating fast food and pizza and it was going to be nice to eat a warm homemade dinner.
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- Apr 13, 2007
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Sunglasses in the Custodian Closet
I'm new to the Smile Cards, but here's my first experience with the cards. I work in a school and after all the kids are gone for the day a sweet young lady Claire comes in to clean the school classrooms and offices. I'm there late once a week and I often chat for a few minutes with her. She always makes me feel so good because she's not full of herself and instead she wants to hear about me or will talk about her children. Our conversations are always great. Last week she wasn't her happy self and told me how her husband had lost his job of 15 years and that she didn't know what they would do without his income. I wanted to cheer her up some how, but couldn't think of anything at that time. Later that week I was in a department store I noticed all the pretty summer clothing ... Read Full Story >>
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- Apr 13, 2007
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New Way to Give to Homeless
When a homeless person is standing on the side of the highway, holding up a cardboard sign asking for money, many people simply look away ignore the person.
I know that sometimes I am hesitant to give away money to people on the street, and sometimes I simply can't get out my wallet in time. However, a really easy thing to do is purchase gift certificates for small amounts from places like McDonalds. They offer $1 gift slips there. Buy 10 or 20 of these and keep them in your glove compartment.
The next time you see someone in need, simply hand them a few and encourage them to go get a hot coffee and a burger. This way you know they will get a decent meal and you know they won't use them to buy other things.
Another simple idea is to hand them a granola bar and a juice box. Little things, but they might just keep someone alive another day!
- Posted by papaya
- Apr 13, 2007
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The Joys of Being a Waitress
As a waitress you meet and see all types of people. I guess you could call it the melting pot of the highway because the food connects us all. I was about to end my shift one afternoon when a group of people came in. As they sat down, they explained that they were trying to make it home and just had enough to buy their children a small snack and that all they needed was water. So I showed them a few things on the menu and asked them what they would like. As I walked away to turn in their order, I just couldn't see this family leaving hungry with a snack and some water! So I asked some friends to join me in helping this family and they agreed because they know how I am when it comes to helping others and it gives them the fuzzy feeling of ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by Babygirl
- Apr 13, 2007
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Act Quickly on Good Intentions
Last week I was asked to go open the church for one of our members. It was a good warm day, so I decided to walk.
On the way home I had to pass the home of a neighbor that I knew was in the last stage of cancer. I decided to stop and see how the family was doing.
That was on Monday. Friday the neighbor passed away. That made me realize how important it is to act upon those good intentions we have in our hearts.
- Posted by writingmomma
- Apr 12, 2007
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Helping Sally Swim
Each year I volunteer at a camp for children with asthma. Having the condition myself, I went there myself as a camper, then became a counselor when I was of age. This camp is an wonderful place that I could spend days talking about - it does amazing things to the kids who go through the program. I've met a multitude of unforgettable individuals there, but one child definitely stands out. One year, as a Senior Counselor, I was in charge of one Teams for games and activities. On the first day, the camp director came to talk to me, leading a small girl. For the purposes of this story, I will call her Sally. She was adorable, vivacious, smart, funny, and about 9 years old. And, in additon to asthma, she had sickle cell disease. This meant I had ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by optimist
- Apr 12, 2007
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Walking Boots
The other day we heard this story about a man with four children who loved walking.
He noticed that everyone's walking boots were really dirty. So, later that night when everyone had gone to bed he went downstairs and cleaned them completely with water and a scrubbing brush. Then he waxed them all and left them out on the kitchen table to be discovered in the morning.
When his children asked him about it, he said that it must have been Waxclean, the good fairy of walking boots!
- Posted by Forches
- Apr 12, 2007
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