Thoughts on Simple Living
On this eve of the 21-Day Simple Living challenge I'm sitting in reflection of what the term simple means to me. Over the past two+ years I've taken step after step, some conscious others not at all, towards simplifying my life. As such I've stepped into a much slower, much more mindful day-to-day existence although it's often I step back into the busy and faster pace that I once knew. I believe Duane shared on a few Awakin calls ago that in simplifying we have the opportunity to realize what really matters most to us. That also has shown truth for me, as I stepped into forming Wild Dream Walks, an organization that uses walking as a tool to connect community and lead people down the path of what matters to them most. This alone has given me the opportunity to serve from my heart for many people. This year I created ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by Anonymous
- Jan 9, 2015
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Snail Mail Surprises
I was very busy yesterday snipping coupons, cartoons, gathering inspirations, stick-em's, jokes, good reads, music and other goodies for my snail mail treats. Usually I send my snail mail surprises out monthly but with the holidays I haven't. Seems many of my friends , a few widows and a few family members are really down. I believe its a combination of life challenges, the weather and the holidays. I want to do my part to spread cheer, goodwill and smiles to let them know I am thinking about them and sending them hugs, since I can't be there in person. I wrote several short letters and cards then filled them with all sorts of goodies depending on the recipents and what I thought would cheer or inspire them personally. These goodies included an inspirational book, a little mystery fun book, poetry, a spa coupon and a Birdsong DVD. I also held each card/letter in the palm of my hands infusing it with ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by brighteyes
- Jun 6, 2008
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All Bundled Up in a Wheelchair
Yesterday I went to the card shop with my friend. She went about her shopping and I did mine. We met at the register and paid. Walking together we approached the exit door. There was a little old soul in a wheelchair, just inside the doorway of the store. She was wrapped up with a blanket, hat and scraf, which was around her face. All we could see were her eyes peeking out. I couldn't help but wave to her as we approached the exit door. I smiled really big and said, "Enjoy your day!" I could not see her mouth for her smile because of the scarf, but her eyes were dancing! My friend said, "Who was that?" I replied, "I don't know." She said she thought I knew the lady because I was waving as we approached her and I spoke to her. I said, "No, I don't know her, but I'm sure she ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by Aurelia
- Oct 13, 2008
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A Simple Act of Patience
Recently we've had a popular department store open in our area. It's been the talk of the town for months!! On about the third day of the grand opening, I thought I'd stop by to check it out. I noticed right away that the parking area was extrememly busy. As I was about to exit my car, a lady was about to enter her car to leave. She was parked on the opposite side of me and there was a four way stop behind our parking areas. As the lady tried to back out to leave, some of the shoppers were extremely rude to her!! They yelled and beeped their horns at the lady and she had a look of terror on her face. She looked at me and threw up both of her hands as if she didn't know what to do. I gestured for the lady to put her ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by megs
- Nov 15, 2008
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Hard Lesson From An Unlikely Teacher
In what now seems like many incarnations ago I was waiting in Bonn Square, Oxford, England, for my wife to return from shopping. We had an agreement that she would go to the shops while I would browse the wonderful bookstores in the centre of Oxford. Then at 5 o’clock we’d meet in Bonn Square for a coffee – an arrangement that allowed us to do what we both liked doing best. On this particular day she was 25 minutes late. I was beginning to shiver in the crisp November air. I scanned the square for something to take my mind off my frustration. My attention was drawn to three people sitting on a bench about 50 feet away. Two men and a woman. The men looked as though they were far gone into an alcoholic haze. Probably, I thought, the three of them were from the homeless person’s ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by ferris150142
- Nov 20, 2008
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Scarf with a Mission
I recently received a story from a friend: So after a recent meditation group gathering, a wonderful soul that I trust and admire asked me to give away a beautifully constructed scarf with a smile card. I mean, living in New York City in the dead of winter, I thought this should be easy. There is a woman who sits outside in the cold, near my office building every single day. I instantly thought, Let me give it to her. She appears to be homeless, it is cold, and she sits there all day, everyday, outside of one of the richest jewelry stores in the world. Excitedly, I went to give her the scarf. She said, "What is it?" I told her, and she said, "No, I don't want it." And in that moment I was both perplexed and humbled. I wanted to plead with her, "It's cold, it’s snowing, you don't ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by beastly
- Apr 14, 2013
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The Promise Proclamation
While we often tell others we love, such as our family, friends, and relatives, those comforting thoughts to warm up their hearts inside, we forget that this gift of friendship and affection we give to others is something we can give ourselves too. Remind yourself that as you help others, you are also allowed to help yourself along the way. Here's a gift to give yourself as you get started. Make the following promise proclamations to yourself today: 1. I will become friends with myself and realize that it is a worthwile friendship just as are the friendsips I have with others. 2. I will look for sunshine in everything, so optimism becomes my reality not an elusive dream. 3.I will create thoughts of the best in mind, give my best to meet my goals, and expect only the best results, so that the best is manifested in my life. 4. I will understand ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by sethi
- May 25, 2009
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A 72 Year-Old Gem
Today, I was at an ATM that is situated inside a petrol bunk. The security guard (who was a 72 year-old man) gently reminded me that I cannot use my cell phone inside the ATM. When I came outside, I had a desire to talk with him. At first, I felt a little sympathetic. In my initial impression, he seemed like a poor, elderly retired man who was still working at this ATM. I ended up listening to him. He spoke to me about his family, and particularly about his son and daughter. He told me that his daughter always cares for him, even though she is married herself. Then he described his son, who "has a heart of stone". He advised me me to save money for my old age (not that I am all that young :)), and I told him that I give away everything, trusting in the bounty ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by heartofflesh
- Aug 14, 2013
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We All Need Someone Who Understands
A farmer had some puppies he needed to sell. He painted a sign advertising the pups and set about Nailing it to a post on the edge of his yard. As he was driving the last nail into the post, he Felt a tug on his overalls. He looked down into the Eyes of a little boy. Mister," he said, "I want to buy one of your puppies." "Well," said the farmer, as he rubbed the sweat off the back of his neck, "these puppies come from fine parents and cost a good deal of money." The boy dropped his head for a moment. Then reaching deep into his pocket, he pulled out a handful of change and held it up to the farmer. "I've got thirty-nine cents. Is that enough to take a look?" "Sure," said the farmer. And with that he let out a whistle,"Here,Dolly!" he called. Out from the doghouse and down the ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by ravjot
- Oct 16, 2009
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Finding The Courage To Wipe The Windows
Here I was, as any other morning, in front of the bread store. Today, the door was opened. Outside it was cold enough. I stepped inside and I saw some pieces of cloth on the stairs. The door's window was wet - at a closer look I saw it was sprayed with window cleaning liquid. I stopped. I saw there were two other ladies in the store, waiting to be served. I looked again at the few pieces of cloth, hanging there, exactly in front of me. I thought about Help Others stories. Suddenly I felt I had the courage to pick one up and wipe the window. "Don't worry about it" I heard. "I'll do it later. There is plenty of time" and she laughed, blushing all over. I realized I didn't do it for her. Some force inside pushed me to do it just to show me that I can humble myself, ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by whitemigaloo
- Oct 19, 2009
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A Kindness "Chain Reaction" in a Traffic Jam
My 17 year old granddaughter is an accomplished flutist. She recently gave a farewell recital to her friends and family at her high school in Chicago, which was followed by a homemade buffet supper. After the recital, she had a 3 hour drive home with her mother and sister. They decided to load up the car with the left-over food from the recital, which included barbequed sandwiches and cream puffs. They packed the food on plates which they placed in zip-lock bags. On the drive back, they stopped to give the zip-lock bags to homeless people along the way. At one junction, there was a traffic jam even though the lights were green. My granddaughter decided to run through the cars to take a plate to a person on the side walk. As she ran back, some of the other cars started to honk their horns. The lights had already turned red, so my daughter ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by JeanieMarie
- Mar 31, 2010
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Green Smiles
I remember that particular Monday morning well. Having signed up for a new website dedicated to random kindness (KindSpring.org), I suddenly received an email which stated that my idea had won. My idea had... won? Wait, were they talking about my idea for 'Green Smiles'? Green Smiles had always seemed more like a wishful daydream, some sort of fantasy which was inspired by the lack of green in my neighborhood. I wanted to make the neighborhood more 'green' in the broadest sense of the word. For example, I wanted to plant pretty flowers and even herbs in the small patches near the trees. Perhaps even transform the larger and often messy plots of 'green' near the parking lots. Put up insect-hotels so that children (and adults too of course ;)) would be able to enjoy the sight of a pretty butterfly more often. Or look in wonder at at a buzzing ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by wolfskin2000
- Mar 16, 2014
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Spread Love Everywhere You Go
Dear friends, I hope that all is well. One of the things I know is that it is human nature to want things. We all want more money, better homes, better cars, and better relationships and so on. So what is the secret to getting all that we want? I have been looking for that answer for a while and if you have it I pray you will share. Here is what I would like to share, I started tithing last year and I made the minimum amount based on my income. This past Sunday as I reflected in all that is going well in my life I realized that I was not giving back at the rate to which I am being given. This made me think of life in general and how we want so much from life but we are willing to give so little. We often agonize about ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by hasifanajjemba@yahoo.com
- Mar 11, 2014
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Two In A Taxi For Four
The "share-taxi" normally wouldn't have left until it had four paying passengers in it. The only other passenger was a lady who seemed to be in quite a hurry, so I agreed to pay the remaining fares and got in.
Her mother had suffered a heart attack and this lady was going to collect her and take her to hospital. She started chatting, telling me how her two elder sisters do not care for her mother. She does all she can for her mother while having a husband and two children to look after.
She had just pawned her jewels in order to raise money in a hurry.
She was glad to have someone to talk to until we reached her destination. I wished her well and said a silent prayer.
- Posted by heartofflesh
- Oct 15, 2013
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Helping Out In A Phone Call
As a customer rep for a financial account of one of US' supermarket, its a daily shift of hundred phone calls regarding their prepaid debit cards. Calls that are sometimes degrading, calls that make you cringe at how the caller speaks and calls that are just purely racist. what make it different is how my mindset is. Everyday I wake up and declare myself as a helper of my callers. I go beyond our protocols in dealing with my customers. Though phone interaction is only limited to 4 minutes 45 seconds, i strive to make it as meaningful and as uplifting for someone in need. One of my callers is panicking on how she made the wrong insurance payment that will lead to his son in college not receiving any pay outs thereby leaving him without any food for a week or two. The mom said she can live going over ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by aerarose
- Mar 13, 2014
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Soap Story
The washrooms at university do not have soap, and a friend and I felt that this was a very unhygienic practice. So, we decided to initiate a small project where we would place hand wash in as many washrooms as we can, with little notes pasted on the washroom walls.
We went to a store and bought loads of hand wash and refills, and began placing them in the washrooms near our classrooms. We've provided an e-mail id in our little notes, and told students to inform us when the hand wash becomes empty, and we will refill them within 24 hours.
The reactions from those who are using the hand wash has been very pleasing. We decided to remain anonymous, however there is a great deal of speculation going on, and that's exciting.
It's a wonderful way to serve, and this idea emerged in my head, while attending a Moved By Love retreat recently. I am so grateful to my friend for helping me implement my idea.
- Posted by 11888
- May 31, 2014
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Reconnecting a young women with her father
Decades ago I ended my relationship with my beloved fiance after another young woman made it her life's goal to have this talented man. I left but never stopped loving him. We remained close and kept in contact by phone and rare visits until he died many years later. We always loved each other but because the shock of our ending was so traumatic for me I always refused to return to him. When he died, his friends treated me like his widow which, in a strange way, I was. Several years ago, I saw a note on the internet asking if anyone knew of him. I replied to it and learned it was from his daughter who had never known him. We eventually spoke on the phone several times. She is a well known singer. (Her father was a brilliant pianist and arranger.) She wanted so much to know why she had never known ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by NanaHana
- Oct 2, 2013
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Festival Sweets For Strangers
This Diwali, I planned to celebrate the festival by doing some kind acts. I emailed few colleagues to join me however all were busy with festival celebration. I also had enough work and a meeting got scheduled on the Diwali day itself hence i had to visit office. I was thinking it won't be possible but then I got an idea of distributing sweets right near office. Looked like a good idea but I had not made any full fledged plans. When I reached office I already started feeling bad for security and kitchen staff who were working on holiday, so they got tagged. Around lunch time, I wanted to go and purchase sweets when I thought of buying pizza for lunch, along with giving sweets to pizza hut workers, who were also at work on holiday. This was pretty exciting as young boys n girls work at pizza hut and i was ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by pray4peace
- Sep 29, 2013
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A Snack That Turned Into Balloons
Often we do little acts of kindness and can’t really know what happens next… the people who benefit from the act return to their lives and we return to ours! Our paths may never cross again. But that’s not the case when a member of HelpOthers does a kind act to another member of HelOthers! Here we can chart the ripples as we guide the kindness on its way! Here’s one such story. You may have read Aurelia’s post about making Chex Mix for her family, or Bluebell’s post about receiving a snack from a friend in the US. Well I sent some Karmabucks to Aurelia to find out more about her amazing snack and she offered to send some to me if I was based in the US. Unfortunately I’m not, I live in the UK but luck would have it that I was off to America for a company event last ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by Spoonerism
- Feb 12, 2011
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Finding That Positive Note
My step-son is going through an extremely difficult time in his life and is battling many personal issues. He calls his father several times a day, often consumed by sadness and negativity, sometimes near his breaking point. Trying to be supportive and non-critical takes it's toll on us all, but we keep trying. This morning on our drive to work I asked my husband to try ending the telephone conversation with his son by simply saying, "Now, tell me something good about today". Some days that might be an easy thing to do, other days it may be nearly impossible. But even if the only thing he could can up with to say is, "You were there for me again today, Dad," that would at least give him something positive to focus on. Tonight, I heard my husband say to his son, "Okay, now let's end on a positive note. Tell me ... Read Full Story >>
- Posted by madeusmile
- May 15, 2011
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