Stories by speedyfrade (4 matches)

Learning to live and trust

Since I was a kid I liked to be left alone with my own thoughts, I was always wondering around, I was a day dreamer: not an action girl - I rather be painting or just playing with my dolls or legos. Then school came and I was "forced" to know others kids, to learn how to get along, and sometimes It was a very hard issue to me. I took very seriously every harsh and bullying event towards myself and that made me to grow up with less and less hope in humanity. I became a very shy girl with huge dreams, and very large fear of others.I always thought I was meant to be alone: and I was prepared to be later in life got engaged and moved in with my beloved. I've completed my studies, after 15 years we had a baby. But even now, in my gut I don't ... Read Full Story >>

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My First Smile Card - An Unforgettable Moment

Today I gave my first Smile Card to someone (I thought I've lost them, but I found them again) - maybe life was telling me to wait for the right moment to start giving them.

I gave it to my friendly "acupuncture doctor" and it was kind of a fun moment. The reaction and all the "doubts" that formed in his semblance were unforgettable. I like to make surprises and leave people speechless - since this was a "strange" action (people are not used to receive gratitude for their acts), I got the most happy-shy smile - and since he is a very expansive kind of person I wasn't expecting that kind of reaction.

It felt great and I hope he can find lots and lots of gratitude smiles in his life - he deserves all of them ;)
It's so good, I'm preparing my next delivery ^_^  - life will tell me when and to whom.
Thank you KindSpring!!!

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Reasons to smile

I have found this and the words felt so perfect! I'm a working mother, so tired most of the time, often I get into my bed and get lost in a feeling "I'm so tired I can't fall asleep": and start to snore (laugh). Two things I want to add to my daily life: In the mornings be grateful for another day, and at night be grateful for those who made my day special (including myself). Love to you all <3

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Changes For The Better

I'm starting to be more kind to people. Now I smile more often, I enjoy walking my old dog and actually liking talking to strangers, which for me is huge as a shy person.  I'm more understanding and patient with my child (sometimes I need to react against his father's stressful reactions - by talking calmly I make him view the other perspective, that it is not so "the end of the world" of a situation. It is rather the beginning of our child's opinions and learning from his mistakes - the kid doesn't have to be perfect, just has to understand what's the best path to grow up healthy, happy and kind to others.) At the gym I felt more at ease, not having so much social anxiety anymore and find myself more outgoing. I used to dread Mondays, but my attitude has changed about it, I'm no longer hiding behind social fear.  I'm ... Read Full Story >>

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